We love getting to know all of our clients and developing personal long lasting relationships with them. Especially with Weddings, we spend a lot of time learning about our client's backgrounds, lifestyles, families and ensuring everything about their day is personal to them!
Part of our consultation process when getting to know new clients is telling them about us and our story. It's very important that they feel we are experienced in the Wedding industry, but also that we have similar personalities to make the process as fun as possible!
Ashley has been working for Kelly Elizabeth Events for over 1 year and continues to dazzle clients with her positive attitude and attention to details. She can always be counted on to execute every logistic with a passion and expertise that allows her clients to enjoy their day without a worry. We love having her on the team and here's little bit more about her!
Ashley Auger - Wedding Coordinator
What type of Weddings are your favorite?
For me, the most special and meaningful Weddings are the ones that are unique and truly reflect the couple and what is important to them. There are so many creative ways to add small personal touches to your Wedding and I enjoy getting to learn about our couples through the planning process and trying to find ways to incorporate the things they love into their Wedding day. My favorite Weddings are the ones a little outside the norm and I love the challenge of making these visions a reality for our couples.
What’s a dream venue or destination where you’d love to plan a Wedding?
This one is tough! There are so many places in the world I would love to plan a Wedding, but my number one is The Boston Public Library. The outdoor courtyard is gorgeous, and I’m obsessed with Reed Hall. Someday hopefully!
What’s your biggest piece of advice for Bride’s planning their Wedding?
Focus on the bigger picture. When couples are planning their Wedding it can be easy to get caught up in all the little decisions. Your Wedding day is supposed to celebrate you two as a couple and the love you share! While picking out flowers and décor can be fun, that’s not the most important part. It can be tough when dealing with pressure from friends and family, but this day should reflect who you are, so don’t forget that!
Also, get a Day-of Wedding Coordinator! Even if you have the planning part down on your own, having someone there the day-of your Wedding to make sure your big day runs smoothly and is stress-free is priceless.
What do you like to do when you’re not planning Weddings?
I’m a bookworm (probably a reason I love the Boston Public Library so much) so in my free time I love reading, especially historical biographies. I also enjoy traveling and learning about different cultures and food of the world, cooking and spending time with my family.
Naturally since we are in the business of Weddings, Bachelorette parties are a common topic sourcing lots of questions from our clients (and let's be honest, friends and family). They are one of our favorite celebrations and they are such a fun way to gather all your gal pals and spoil the bride to be. It’s easy to become overwhelmed with all the work that goes into the planning them, especially when the group count can get pretty high, but take a breath! Here are some of our tips for throwing an unforgettable bachelorette party or weekend:
Talk to the Bride
When planning the Bachelorette party, remember it's all about your girl! While you may want to keep the specifics a surprise for the bride to be, it is important to talk to her and get an idea of what she is envisioning for her party before the party. Is she hoping for a wild weekend away in Vegas or a relaxing wine tasting followed by dinner at her favorite restaurant? This will not only ensure you plan something she will LOVE, but it's a great way to make her feel involved. Respect her wishes and aim to plain something within her vision and expectations.
PRO TIP: Have your Bride make a shared Pinterest board for her Bachelorette party! This is a great way for you to get a clear picture of what she wants and involve her in the fun party of planning - the ideas!
Bachelorette party costs can add up quickly and it is a must to stay on top of your budget! After talking to the bride and getting a feel for what she wants, discuss your plan with the rest of the bridal party to find a budget everyone is comfortable with. By setting a budget before you start planning, you can make sure that all the plans you are making are not going to break the bank and within everyone's means. It is totally possible to throw an amazing party without spending too much!
Once your budget is set and your planning is underway, collecting money and dividing costs can be a tricky task to tackle. We find the easiest way to accomplish this is to figure out all the anticipated costs for the weekend and have everyone pay ahead of time for the big group expenses. This allows you to have money to buy anything you need to ahead of time like tickets, hotel rooms, decorations etc.
PRO TIP: If you still have smaller expenses, i.e., Ubers, meals, drinks etc - we recommend the app Splitwise. It easily allows you to keep track of who pays for what throughout the weekend and who owes who - without you needing to do any of the math! At the end of the weekend it reconciles it all for you :)
Plan, Plan, Plan!
We recommend planning a few big group activities and always planning food! Finding a restaurant with availability for a large group last minute can be difficult, so to make sure you don’t end up with a group of hangry girls, research restaurants ahead of time and make a reservation for your group.
PRO TIP: If any of the activities you have planned are weather permitting it is always a good idea to have a back-up plan…just in case!
EXTRA PRO TIP: Make a shared playlist on Spotify that all the guests can add the bride’s favorite songs to. It will be the perfect soundtrack for the weekend!
Make it Personal!
It's always fun to make the bride to be feel extra special by getting some fun Bachelorette party décor! Pick a theme and spruce up your space with balloons and a fun garland. If you're having a night out, maybe deck out the car or party bus! If you're going away from a weekend - try to focus the décor in the shared areas of the house like the kitchen, living room or backyard. We also love making welcome bags or hangover kits to give the guests when they arrive. You can include anything from matching t-shirts or hats, mini bottles of champagne, sunglasses, water bottles, personalized tumblers, snacks, Tylenol…the options are endless! Etsy has an unlimited amount of ideas that let you personalize these items with the Brides name or the hashtag for the party.
PRO TIP: When it comes to NSFW décor - it's always best to respect the bride’s wishes. If she’s not into it, that’s ok! Remember this weekend is about celebrating her and you don’t want her to feel uncomfortable.
Keeping track of all the details for the Bachelorette party plans can be tough, but an excel spreadsheet can help keep you organized. You can keep a running RSVP list, outline your budget, gather all your décor and favor ideas in one place, make lists of activities and supplies you will need and keep a running list of to-do’s before the party. Trust us, this will be a lifesaver and avoid having 30 different lists. If you make it in Google Sheets, it's also something you can easily share with the rest of the bridal party!
PRO TIP: Print any confirmations, orders, etc that you may need for your plans ahead of time. This way you can avoid any issues brining something up on your.
Get Everyone Involved
This brings us to our next and last tip, planning a Bachelorette party can be a big task for one person..so delegate! Ask the others in the bridal party to help with specific tasks to help make the planning a little easier. One person can be in charge of making the favors, one person can research restaurants, one person can plan a fun game to play with the bride etc. By leaning on the rest of the bridal party for a little help you can focus on the other big stuff! Also - everyone likes to be involved and contribute - you all have one thing in common afterall, your love for the Bride!
Final Pro Tip - A Checklist to Get You Started!
Not sure where to start, here are 10 tasks to help you get started and organized when planning a Bachelorette party!
The Griffin Museum of Photography, located in Winchester, MA is a charming and serene Wedding Venue just outside of Boston. Located on Judkins Pond, this colonial style building houses stunning photography exhibits and offers the perfect backdrop for a small, intimate Wedding. Not only is the Main Gallery inside the museum available for your reception, but they also offer their outside patio on the waterfront for ceremonies. They also offer the opportunity to tent the patio if you think you may have a larger crowd.
Behind the main space is an an apartment style kitchen, two bathrooms and additional gallery that can be great back of house space for any vendor, bridal party prep etc. If you’re looking for a quaint picturesque New England Wedding Venue, this one could be for you!
One of our favorite features is an operating water wheel and the family of Swans that live on the pond. If you get lucky, they may just make an appearance for your Wedding. Throughout the whole property, there are countless spots for some great Wedding photos. We've been lucky enough to plan two Weddings at the venue which both have gone wonderfully with the support of the amazing Museum team.
Here are some of our favorite moments from Nora and George’s Wedding at The Griffin Museum of Photography in 2019!
All Photos by Alex Cole Photography
One of the first things couples do post-engagement is go down a Pinterest rabbit hole collecting ideas for a Wedding vision board to start their planning and bring it all to life. We say rabbit hole because that's exactly how Pinterest works. One pin leads to another, to another, to another. Do not get us wrong. WE LOVE PINTEREST! It is perfect for collecting ideas and finding what colors, textures, designs, locations etc all resonate with you for your Wedding. From the ceremony to tablescapes, favors and thank you notes, you can find ideas for everything! It's also a great tool to collect you ideas to share with your florist, planner and photographer.
In our line of work, we have become very well-versed in Pinterest and love working with clients on putting together their perfect Wedding Vision Board through Pinterest. Here are some ideas for templates on how to keep your thoughts organized and how to avoid getting overwhelmed with Pinterest.
Use the Sections Feature
Pinterest recently added the opportunity to add sections to your Pinterest board. This has been extremely helpful and avoids the need to create 15 different boards for your Wedding. Before you start pinning, we recommend following a template for your vision board and setting up sections:
Focus on Big Picture
The Wedding Planning process ebbs and flows. So many things can affect what make sense for your Wedding. Venue, vendors, date, location etc all can affect whether that setup you're seeing on Pinterest can come to life. When you're pinning, we encourage you to get excited about the things you see, but keep an open mind and focus on different trends and ideas you like as opposed to specific pictures. The truth is, it's your Wedding and you want to put your interpretation and personal style on an idea, not completely replicate something already done.
Follow Local Vendors/Publications
Try searching for Pinterest accounts specifically in your area (or where you are going to get married) so you can see local vendors are doing. Why fall in love with a venue on the opposite coast as you if you are not going to have a destination Wedding?
Share it with your Friends and Family!
Make the board collaborative! Invite your friends and family to also share ideas that they find that may be helpful to you!
Look Outside Pinterest
You don't need to just find pins through Pinterest. Check out Instagram pages, Wedding Blogs, even vendor websites to find ideas you like! Portfolio pages for photographers, planners and venues are great sources for finding inspiration. When you start the planning process, using Pinterest to host all your ideas for venues and vendors can help you remember what you liked about each of them from their websites.
TIP: Adding the Pinterest Widget to your web browsers makes it really easy to add pins of things you find while browsing the internet.
Creating the menu for your Wedding day can be an overwhelming process. The food at a Wedding can certainly make or break it the guest experience, but one thing we have learned in the Wedding biz…guests love options! Rather than going the traditional plated meal route, work with your caterer to opt for interactive food stations for your big day. We love stations for so many reasons. Not only are the options endless and so fun to come up with, but it is a great way to get your guests up and entertained throughout the night through your menu. Consider it a "choose your own adventure!" Interactive food stations are a great way to make your Wedding stand out and keep your guests raving about your Wedding for months to come! Here are some of our favorite menu ideas through food stations on trend right now:
Choose a fun dish, local to the destination of your Wedding or to where you are from! This is a great way to take a foundational piece of your Wedding puzzle and making it fun and personal. It also is a great way to give guests a taste of the local flavor if they are coming in from out of town for your Wedding.
Mini Food and Drink Pairings
This trend is not going anywhere any time soon and the ideas for menu combinations are endless. Take your food to the next level by offering it with a fun drink pairing! This will be a hit with your guests and leads to so many fun photo ops. Any of combinations can be served as a passed item or as a food station.
Food trucks at Weddings has become a huge trend in the industry! It’s a great budget friendly way to feed your guests and the options are endless to create a fun Wedding menu. You can have food trucks cater your entire wedding or opt for them to serve as one piece of the menu. For example, bring in a dessert truck as a late-night surprise for your guests. Not to mention the food truck photos are so sweet!
Roxanne and Zach below used some great local food trucks at their Wedding to put together their menu.
Build Your Own Drink
Interactive stations are not perfect upgrades only for your food menu, but drinks too! Let your guests customize a beverage to their liking by offering a unique drink station. From build your own margaritas, bloody mary stations and even alcohol infused sno cones, these all offer another great form of entertainment and an activity for your guests through your menu.
Take It To Go
For a sweet end of the night treat for your guests - offer a Take it To Go station with sweets and treats the guests can pack up to enjoy later. These can also serve as your wedding favors and can help keep your guests dreaming about the menu even as they walk out the door. We love edible wedding favors and we think your guests will too!
Photos by Nicole Marcelle Photography
When In Doubt - Go With Your Favorites
One of our favorite stations to incorporate lately has been a Bride and Groom favorite snacks station. This is something that can be kept open from cocktail hour through goodbyes and allows a place for guests to always grab something to eat while learning something about the Bride and Groom. It's also one of our favorites because it doesn't have to make sense. The food doesn't need to pair together because it's supposed to be random - it's all your favorite things!
Dreaming of a rustic and charming barn wedding for your special day? One of our local favorites is the Barn at Bradstreet Farm in Rowley, MA! Established in 1635, the Barn at Bradstreet Farm is the second oldest operational farm in the U.S and was in the Bradstreet family until 2007 when it underwent a 3 year renovation…and it is STUNNING! Not only is it a perfect venue for all your barn wedding dreams, but Tiffany and her team at Bradstreet Farm are incredible! We were lucky enough to work with them in 2019 and are looking forward to another wedding with them later in 2020.
Not only does the Barn at Bradstreet Farm offer a beautifully renovated barn for your reception (including heat and A/C), but also multiple picturesque spots for photos, a private cottage for you and your bridal party to get ready in, a sprawling outdoor space for ceremonies and cocktail hours with plenty of room for a tent, fire pits with seating and even baby goats! Extra bonus! The Barn at Bradstreet Farm uses fresh produce and flowers grown on the premise for their catering and wedding florals.
If all of this wasn't already great, add live farm animals, sunsets and rustic furniture included with your rental! Some more favorite perks below:
Photos by Pictus Photography
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